This brings me to the thorniest bit: If your wife is Mormon, your kids will be expected to be Mormon. I know that when we have children I will be doing most of the work. Part of me wants to say Yes!!. She needs to be, and maybe she will get there. Yes; I suppose if each of us believe the other is brainwashed, there's going to be major problems later on. Some of my family approves of my marriage and some does not. She converts to your religion. Affection will come and go based on our attitudes, and will not carry through the rough spots в married in the Church or outside. Break it off amicably now, before it gets too difficult. The LDS Church meets many of the criteria for cult behavior.
These are also only the American statistics. I want him to commit more to his family and himself. If you feel peaceful with your decision and you feel it is right that should be helpful.
And even longer when you add that one-year fellowship to the end of it. So I was falling head over heels for this guy, but in the meantime I didn't feel like we were going anywhere. Going along with her cult might feel fine when it is just you in her, but if you have kids, it will be very different. I get that a lot to people saying 'be happy you married a doctor' 'u will have a glamorous wonderful life' they would not get it unless they be one-that is being a docs wife, the loneliness is the worst especially when your newly wedded and 2nd month of ur marriage he has to go for his night calls in dec, which includes our first christmas: I thought I was the only one who barely gets communication throughout the day, not married but am dating a surgeon and have for 6 years. If things get even more serious, try getting her to sign a pre-nup that neither she, nor her family will try to convert you. If it is a good honest relationship with two well-meaning people, you need to put work into it. Ignore the busy-bodies who want to condemn your significant other. We need to believe fully and then we make choices, not the other way around. He was my first boyfirend and is an amazing husband. Good luck and best wishes as you head back out into the dating pool.
This is right for me and for us. This is legitimately how it is for most dudes in Mormondumb. I went in thinking "oh, we can definitely do this. I guess if u believe an angel with a sword really did force Joseph Smith to marry those girls. I've told her that but maybe she doesn't believe me. I wouldn't purposefully subject my daughters to that BS. Her Religion is more important than you will ever be Her Religion comes first and deep down, she will come to hate you for not accepting joining her religion. I realize I rambled a bit and may not have answered all your questions; feel free to ask anything else you want to know. You stop talking at all. The closet is deep though I think that's seriously generalizing.
Would she be okay spending a Sunday to an atheist space with you. The woman provides advice and counsel but doesn't preside. This sub is a great place to do that. Of course it is impossible Anyways, I am sorry to go on and on.