I lost my virginity to a man with a huge penis. Watching porn made me uncomfortable so I always just read erotica. I could barely open my jaw far enough to the get the thing in my mouth. We could only have sex in missionary position because everything else hurt so badly. I was not particularly impressed with intercourse or giving oral, for that matter. The rest of my relationships have been with men with normal size penises. I found out, holy shit, having sex with them is fucking easy. Give me a normal dick any day. I posted a while back about dating a guy with a micropenis.
Really, he was just embarrassed by how small it was. The actual sex was terrible, but I think a large part of it centered on his lack of confidence. He kept apologizing, then going soft, then slipping out, and it was just stressful sex. I think we still could have had fun if he had not gone into it thinking it was going to be a failure.
He was also really sweet and attentive outside of the bedroom, so it turned into this weird Dr. I had been hooking up with a guy for a week or so before it went THAT far…I was willing and a bit eager to give him head, until he pulled the damn kraken out of his pants. He and a friend were over mine one night and the friend left. The American guy and I ended up on the bed kissing for a while with him on top.
It was actually giving me a mini panic attack. I told him to get off and lay down so I could be on top in my head I figured it would be easier then. When I did find it it was 2 inches or less, erect. I screamed and told him to get out, to which he and I started arguing. He called me a few things. In the mean time I called my friend who was also living in the flat. He was in there for a while then ran out.
When my friend and I checked the bathroom there was semen everywhere. Big penis? I literally have to be able to sink the Titanic in my pants before I can take a dick. The big one was fun for blow jobs but sex hurt until I got wet enough or I guess, stretched enough.
It went in easily and he knew a lot of stuff to do with it. It was all enjoyable. One of my exes was around 8. It was pretty uncomfortable since it took a while to actually fit it in even with copious amounts of lube and I was even bearing tears on a few occasions along with a bruised cervix. It was fun giving him head, though! For very small, it was actually better than the very large because what he lacked in size, he made up for in speed.
It goes a long way. The worst thing about a short dick is the hair on the shaft and the fact that most guys are super insecure so they tend to prematurely come. I dated a guy with a legitimate micro-peen. He was so suave about it that it was easily ignored, though.
It helped that he was a level 10 kisser and so in-tune with reading my cues. I believe years of not being able to have conventional sex have given him oral superpowers. Long story short, I never did get to see the goods that first night. Anyway, my experience with an extremely small penis was pretty positive because the guy took amazing steps to compensate.
When I was 19, I started dating a boy and we slept together five times before my hymen broke. I had just assumed it had busted at some point during all the finger banging, heh. His dick was about three inches long and kind of skinny. Dated another guy much later with a dick thicker around than my wrist, probably 8 inches long.
There was no such thing as quickies. He had to romance me if he wanted to put that thing inside me. I had a partner who was basically a mushroom head connected to a pile of pubes when soft I think he was 2 inches hard as a result of a twisted testicle he was born with and had to get surgery for. He was also unable to orgasm from another person manipulating his penis or fucking, as much as he did enjoy that because of the surgery he had to have when he was a kid.
Overall though he was fine in bed because he cared about pleasuring and found other ways to do that. My first penis in vagina sexual experience was with what I consider a large penis 9 inches at least and fat and I remember it being difficult to work with at times. A big dick does not mean a great partner. So much of sex is about touch, anticipation, generosity, comfort levels, tenderness and filth… things that have nothing to do with penis size and everything to do with the energy between two people.
Just saying. Having been across the penis spectrum, I just want to say that penises are awesome. All shapes and sizes are amazing. The best thing you can do with them, is to make sure they are attached to a great person.
There is so much more to sex than size. Small is great for anal. Also, if they are not too self-conscious about it, regular sex can be great. It has been my experience that men with smaller penises make up for it with knowing what to do with it, and knowing what to do with their hands and mouths too. Big penises are just as great. I personally prefer bigger penises. I like the soreness I feel for a while after. Lost my virginity to a guy with a smaller than average penis in girth. It was about 5 inches long but really thin, not exactly sure how thin around, maybe 12 centimetres?
I was so self concious and it only got worse. Just so fucking awkward. I then had a boyfriend with a very large penis, really fun to play with and it made me feel like a porn star when i was giving him head but it could be painful at times for both of us.
Took us a long time to find condoms that would fit him properly, and he could never enter me completely. We had a healthy sex life but it always took a couple days of recovery for me, which sucked.
Luckily I married someone who is the right size for me. He had unusually colored eyes and intense eyebrows, he was a foreigner. The sex was awkward. My previous two partners had both had about 8 inches and I had grown used to a different style of fucking.
But I learned. The sex got better. I discovered that the rocking, grinding motion I had to adapt to to stay penetrated by this smaller penis led to amazing friction on my clit. I had my first orgasms during intercourse with this man and his small penis. And he never apologized or flinched. And we both shared many, many orgasms pressed tightly together and I stayed with him for over four years. When it ended, it had nothing to do with his penis.
Sadly, we fell out of love. But for awhile I thought that very small penis was going to be the last one I was ever with. But when we went to have sex and he was quite small and he cried during sex and told me shameful story about his friends pantsing him at a party and everyone laughing. Never spoke again. At far as large dicks go, there are two kinds.
The large ugly awkward penises that look unappealing from every angle. The second option is like the unicorn of dicks. Unicorn-penis is gentle and accommodating. I was going at it pretty hot and heavy with a guy I really liked. It was at that moment my heart shattered. This perfect guy was carrying nothing bigger than a baby dill in his pants.
The two of the largest were about 6. The 4 inch one absolutely almost never got me off. I think in the year and a half I was with the guy, I came around 5 times from vaginal intercourse, the anal was good though and I got off a lot through that. That was only a fling and we slept together a few more times after that but definitely not a keeper despite the amazing sex.
The guy with the longer, average girth hurt a lot.