Until you can believe someone else's beliefs are reasonable, you will not be able to treat them with the respect they deserve. I fear the idea of growing to resent him. Religious affiliation is not the only criteria when selecting a spouse. We have a happy marriage. There is no freedom to think, no freedom to speak your mind, and no freedom to do anything that 'the brethren' say not to. Go on dates on days other than Sunday. That is why there are home teachers, friends, family members, neighborsвto provide priesthood blessings. There is no way I can compete with a suicide!!. Also, if you have girls, you must realize that they are second class citizens in the church and the church will reinforce this idea. Just let things keep going.
These were some tips to keep in mind when dating a Mormon guy or girl. My surgeon husband of 12 years just made himself a "free agent" when he cheated on me and our three kids with a gal 12 years his junior. I hate to say it, but I don't see this ending well. Love in Different Languages. First, my dad was a wonderful husband to my mother the greatest mom on earthand a wonderful father to me. Tell her that you want your relationship with her, and her relationship with your children together to be separate from her religion with her god. His job prevents you much access to him. If you decide to marry this man, you both will find a way to be happy and have a wonderful marriage, not that perfect that we see in the Sundays at Church. Loneliness seems to be a part of being a wife of a doc in training, and at times all I can think of is simply getting over a day at a time. What's NOT to like about being the wife of a medical doctor.
All the other stuffв is crap. I would go ahead and make boundaries with the conversation about kids and church, if that is your preference. I have to breathe. They spend so much time together. It will poison your marriage until the end в of your life, your marriage, or your belief. If I even mention wanting to talk just about normal life things, I am told not to tilt the balance between problems and fun. And even then it will put Huge stress on it and on you for the rest of your life. If you and she are not sealed, your children won't be sealed to either of you. If it is a good honest relationship with two well-meaning people, you need to put work into it. He is on call ALL the time, he arrives home 9 pm and barely sit down for diner and then gets called away, then again 2 am heart attack.
I am trying to help him stay at the church nth work, I think if I really love him like I always tell him I should let him chose and love him the way he is. Recently though she has been quite distant, although this may be due to a combination of reasons - such as family sickness and now being on nights.
Accompany them and support them for as long as you can and then remind them why you joined together.