It did not go well. I have believed in for better for worse but I cant do it any longer. It is hard for the others to understand my situation, people must just think that you don't need to worry about anything, but this is not the case. My wife is living proof that they CAN be worth it. I don't want to make a mistake by leaving everything I have going on for me for him. We have discussed marriage and kids but I dont want to live a life of lonliness I'm responding to the comment on April 11, - I posted on April 3, Sounds like you are going through my same fears and concerns. Again, reading your blog definitely opened up my eyes to many things I was totally oblivious to. Having said that I'm not looking to get married any time soon, so no. Having said this, there are several aspects of this particular religion that you need to be aware of as these will greatly affect how she will approach you and the relationship as a whole. Never marry someone with the goal of a post-marriage conversion.
But I got to my breaking point, and after not hearing from him AT ALL for seven days at this point we had been dating and sleeping together for months. Also, we haven't practiced polygamy for over years. If this is the case, she definitely can be reprogrammed and awakened.
What goes on in those sacred temples. Long story short, everyone is dead on. And so, I always have to think about my son when I have to travel or have other work commitments. Most likely, the relationship isn't going to survive your differences in belief. I keep busy with my own activities, but it becomes really hard to have a date night. But what I discovered surprised me. Even with the demands on his time, the man took the time and made the effort to post a profile on a dating site. Mormonism and Non-Mormonism don't link to future lives. It's easy to forget why I chose to be with him in the first place. I know what they really make, and what they really spend.
I'm raising great kids alone I'm alone at all those same events It's been a huge personal sacrifice to support my husband all these years. Another simple and doable option is to go online; there are many LDS dating sites where you can sign up and meet new and interesting people. It has to do with their character. Point is, I can push myself to my extreme physical ends and he has barely broken a sweat. You never had it. Moved homes 5 times in that time. I am about to get into a relationship with a doctor. It means that before anything else, you have to be clear in saying that you want to date a Mormon girl. The hardworking doctors won't even get the time or energy for affairs. Mormon theology is pretty clear: But Mormon theology is also rich with opportunities for second chances.
You'll know pretty quick where she stands. One of the most well known church prophets stated that he would rather see his own child dead in their coffin than married outside the temple. She was expecting me to break up with her, like all previous guys she's been into have done. That's probably true, and that would be a great thing for her, but they wouldn't see it that way. I think my husband would do okay with the loneliness - just like I do.