A shitty sex life, potentially. MinsPackage speaks the truth. If so, you have a chance. I was so pleased to read that all Doctor's wives are like myself. Marriage is serious business and we are in it together despite our spouses shortcomings. Being a doctor's wife is difficult, demanding, and lonely. I know residency is particularly bad, but what about when he finishes that. I didn't expect to fall in love with him I am Australian by birth and have lived here for 20 odd years so have no family here other than my 17 year old son and the many wonderful friends I call family I am very extroverted, work full time and have a side business and can keep myself busy every day I would rather know now it will not work Does anyone find they are a bit unemotional. He isn't in school and doesn't have much idea about what it is like to be in my shoes. This is really a conversation you need to have with him.
I don't think you should abandon the relationship just because she is lds. I would NOT want my daughter or son to marry a doctor. I haven't read every post like you probably havebut I've read a lot of them. Then she took a vacation to Utah and in her letter to me she stated that she had seen the Temple, and I never heard from her again. And the fact that he didn't respond for two days was confirmation for myself that I did the right thing. Most mormon girls look at guys like you as a project and that they have a lifetime to work on the project. The church is really good at putting on a happy, wholesome face to show the world, but if you look behind the curtain, you see that it's a despicable cult. My wife is living proof that they CAN be worth it. I can honestly say it has been the worst decision of my life. LDSdotOrg is mostly propaganda.
Chances are you can't though. But it is important to be ruthlessly honest with yourself about how you feel about it. I can second this, as a lifelong utahn this is why I simply have a "no mormons" policy for dating. In many ways, she was everything that I ever wanted in a spouse, but in other ways she was not what I ever expected. He later converted to her faith and was called to be a temple sealer. There is no question that God loves all of His children, and that obviously includes non-members. This was the biggest one for me. Anonymous, you are right. They were taught that bold sincerity of purpose and a charitable attitude is what makes a man. No one understands it, so thank you for sharing your thoughts so I know I'm not alone and not being too needy for feeling alone.
No beliefs are protected from challenge, the rules of evidence, or derision. Ladies, question for you: I find that the fellow ship has created an environment of chronic stress and chronic sleep deprivation that is absolutely affecting his libido. By all means, I encourage you to try having those discussions and to make a mental note of when you would choose to walk away instead.