I grew up in Utah, attended BYU, and served a mission. I too wish I had researched more in depth the other doc's wives blogs out there - I would have come up with a much more clever blog title. We had our first child about a year into the relationship. I still find it an endearing quality in my spouse, though I miss him sorely. I got married to a Mormon woman. He was gone by 6: I was left to manage the house, the finances, the kids' schedules and what little time was left over for my own interests. It does not come from common religion or personality or even values; it only comes through mutual self transcendence. So I knew what I was getting into when I married him though I secretly hoped he would still convert back. I do try to send little texts or call when I have time but not as much as he'd like. A more unfortunate soul needs him right now as much as I need him.
Iam 24, my bf going to move to Troy NY for his master he ask me to move with him, I want to but Iam afraid we will never get married. He wants me to sit around while he does his stuff. We make time for each other every chance we get which sometimes is during the noon hour for lunch. In the long run, being married to a nonmember has made me a better person. You're walking into a den of crazy, tbm bishop's daughter, I hate to say it but you should really be contemplative about what you're stepping into. I can accept her, and she's told me she can accept me The challenging part for me now is the idea of putting my kids through the brainwashing. On top of his work schedule, there are other demands on his time like his family and friends. Sorry, you can't reply to this topic. It's tough to date a med student let alone a resident. I can understand his desire to spend time together to reconnect, but right now it really isn't there.
They are always dressed in decent clothing, and the same is expected of their date. She's a shell of her former self and it breaks by heart to this day. Signs of an Affair. At the very least, I might have tried to persuade my husband to pursue a different career, if only a less-demanding area of medicine. But, when you're married to a doctor, know that doctors don't sacrifice for their marriages. There's a reason so many Utahns are on anti depressants and anti anxiety meds. I had to drive 2 hours alone - and spend the next day alone - bc his partner was out of town - and he could t leave 12 patients on the floor. I am so glad I found this blog. I'm not complaining about the sex, but sometimes it prevents me from getting to know him better when we don't share any other bonding activities or get a chance to really talk. RUN like the wind.
Because I have a husband that is not a member I have a quasi like status in the ward. It wouldn't be as often as from someone with an ordinary job and schedule, but it would happen. For whatever reason, none of them ever seemed that interested in me I freely admit this could have been cluelessness on my partand so never turned serious.