If I were you, I would sever the relationship and find someone else. This usually works out great. Honestly, it isn't her fault. I wanted that full support though I am certainly not saying that marrying a Mormon ensures that. Breaking up with someone solely because of religion is something people condemn alot on this sub when its a Mormon breaking it off with a non Mormon, but if floats both ways. He had no idea what he was getting himself into. You've stated that she had numerous guys break up with her after she took sex off the table. If we have children, they will be OK to go to your church, but not compelled to do so, and never baptized. But you can't make her think about the numerous facts that disprove Mormonism. I hope I can forgive it someday, but even still my anger is red hot.
Take the crazy and add a ton of even crazier shit on on top and Your girlfriend literally believes in a book of scripture that was produced from a rock in Josephs Hat. Do you want a home that is focused on the church with all of the blessings there of or a home that is devoid of the blessings of the priesthood, Sundays without your husband at your side at church with your children celebrating in the gospel. Her church is more important to her than you are ever will beplain and simple.
Most likely, the relationship isn't going to survive your differences in belief. It certainly isn't easy. It made me sad to think that the thing that was most important my life в my faith в was something that I could never fully share with my husband. It has been very therapeutic to read about other people's experiences. I have been that crazy lady with four kids alone at everything, school events, home events, church events. I make significantly more money than he does as a resident, but I know that my job is secondary. See where it goes. And you are right about people telling you that you are lucky that you married a doctor and should not complain. This is right for me and for us. I've never understood that bit of the LDS culture.
It is an act of faith. It would be foolish to acquiesce a Mormon girl to drink coffee. It is an act of faith. If you are in a movie theater, you can't talk, so you can't get to know the girl you are dating. The divorce factor may allow some women to experience single-faith marriage at some point as some Mormon men marry multiple Mormon women over the course of their lifetimes, but the overall point stands: The only options for these women involve seeking a partner outside of the church, or a lifetime of celibacy. Before I proposed, I actually broke up with my partner for a month в mostly due to family pressure. You can ask her directly, or through sources like other Mormons or reading their books. Remember she will only try to convert you because she thinks it is in your best interest. Too bad she couldn't handle the guilt and remorse. Then I discovered that Mormons were a welcome exception to the degeneracy that pervades American women.
Like you I grew up with and taught the standard LDS beliefs about temple marriage, celestial kingdom, etc. I decided not to answer his calls for some time to think. Read our Exit Stories from Mormonism. It's why TBMs are so bugged by people that leave the church.