The ones who already had concerns start questioning. On the bright side, it makes our time together more valuable. You will raise the kids by yourself, and he won't help even when he's home because he'll be too tired or feel too entitled to HIS time alone. And yet I have such profound respect for his role in our community. Help answer questions Learn more. She doesn't want to marry you. Once she realizes you won't join and she can't get married in the temple, then I suspect everything will be over. You will always be second place. He left his practice of many years and started a new one this week. I am a lawyers wife.
Thanks for letting us know. They are not God. You are commenting using your Twitter account. It is very difficult being a Doctors wife. We have 3 children and have now been married 17 years I have been a single mother for yearsthere life is the hospital. If you feel peaceful with your decision and you feel it is right that should be helpful. So I want to know, if you woud have been given the option to take a totally different path and have a fresh start, would you have taken it?. I am a non Mormon. I don't mind long hour days but not having a companion during weekends. She's most likely secretly playing out fantasies of converting you, marrying you in a Mormon temple, and having a very Mormon life, OP.
A quiet, hard working immigrant but dedicated and faithful. Tears in my eyes after reading this. It sucks to admit, but I broke up with him after 6 months because I didn't think there was any point if we couldn't be together forever. If I'm focused on something like reading a textbook, or working on some problem then I might still think of him vaguely but I'm not going to whip out my phone or go and see himI'm busy. And I don't have issues with her, hell, haven't even seen her in over 20 years, but the experience with the whole Mormon thing gave me better insight in to many things in life. Thanks for sharing your story. I was thinking about this last night after listening to Radio West. I stopped working after our 2nd child because his hours were so irregular and there was no predictability to his schedule. Who knows, but I think it was especially hard for the moms of young men. I would NOT want my daughter or son to marry a doctor.
How many chances will a girl have to find such a wonderful husband candidate. In the endвthe very endвGod loves my husband even more than I love him. I wish there was a mother's support network for us all to join and meet up. Is it wrong that I feel guilty?. I have been married for 16 years to a cardiothoracic surgeon.