Just talk to her honestly, and if you have to, use the old wonder of logic. My advice would be to become as familiar as possible with her schedule, and then plan activities that will allow you both to get to know each other better, avoid movies. If you shift his way, be prepared for the social costs of inactivityвplus, if you really believe the doctrine, a crisis of faith. You will have to bring her down to reality. Here are my thoughts as someone who grew up with a non-mormon father and as someone who married a non-mormon girl. You would think surrounded by kids and being off every day would not be lonely but never having anyone to share your kids achievements with in person is hard. Pickings are slim at church. To his defense, when we were great, we were great. Sorry if I gave that impression. The history of racism and violence is upsetting.
Some people really can't wait, others can, and there is nothing wrong with either of those. She likely believes that her time as a missionary was preparation for marriage. Do not put up with bad behavior at any stage of a relationship. There is no such thing as a perfect Mormon family- regardless of whether the parents are sealed or not. If you feel peaceful with your decision and you feel it is right that should be helpful. She probably has not studied the real truths behind Mormonism and thinks her beliefs are the only way to become a God while living eternally with family in the life hereafter. He might just be unpracticed at your "love language". But I do still largely consider us an interfaith couple. I have never been your typical domestically skilled stay at home mom. I believe that there will be a lot more mercy than justice being dished out at the judgment.
If you have tended to straddle the line between light and dark in the past, or have been a partier, expect to make some changes for this relationship, and expect certain things from your new crush. Whereas white and black may both sleep in on Sunday and tie their left shoes first, Mos have a set of behavioral norms that are in serious conflict with Nomo lifestyles. Her home time is exclusively for the kids and paper work. This is legitimately how it is for most dudes in Mormondumb. As a non member you can not take her to the celestial kingdom to live with God and get your own worlds to populate with her. Oh your fiance works in the medicine field, too. Only idiots are unfriendly to non-Mormon spouses. This is by design. When missionaries come home, they are like top dog religious people. I gave her a piece of my mind as my home is much happier and healthy now then when I was married to my x.
Fifty years later, not one of her 3 children, her dozen grandchildren or her numerous great grandchildren is an active member of the LDS church. But a recommendation to somebody who isn't in love yet and doesn't have to live with it What are the biggest problems that occur because of the time issues And how are you dealing with this as a couple.
There is no freedom to think, no freedom to speak your mind, and no freedom to do anything that 'the brethren' say not to. I'm trying to figure out what I'm getting into in the coming years if I stick around.