I think he tries to listen but doesn't know how. Make an honest effort, and see if you reach the walk-away point. The Church does not recognize homosexual marriage, and does not condone sexual activity outside of marriage. Thanks again for the continued comments and replies to my edit. He sees around 50 patients a day and is always tired when gets home n wants peace and quiet. You just need to figure out where your girlfriend is. Today, I actually feel like I might literally go insane. I don't remember much of the breakup because it's been overshadowed by what happened to her afterwards. Not being an RM, they weren't really interested in me. Anything she learned about mormonsim, she wanted to learn on her own.
Thanks - I searched but couldn't find it. Unfortunately I've been sort of seeing a girl who is basically a real deal Mormon. That will most likely be the deal breaker for her. Not unless she thinks she can convert you. Unfortunately, this has led to a culture of Mormon girls who are absolutely obsessed with Disney and even as adults dream of being Disney princesses. He was lonely, as was she. I too suffer the same problem. I made a conscious decision to marry outside the church for my own reasons. For whatever reason, none of them ever seemed that interested in me I freely admit this could have been cluelessness on my partand so never turned serious. If so that's a good sign.
Everyday he asks me, "What are you doing tonight. I learned that you have to weigh thes things out--is it someone you care enough about to wait for. I've started to get annoyed when close friends approach him for medical guidance. Nobody has prepared her for one, definitely haven't prepared her for a healthy physical relationship. I have been dating a great guy for about a year now, and we started dating shortly after my parents died of cancer. Our relationship is not perfect, not easy, but absolutely amazing. Although with the change in times, people may not follow these rules as stringently as before, it is still better to be careful so as to not offend anyone, and you may possibly land up with the love of your life. Two very simple things that require so much effort and understanding. Same goes for holidays-flip a coin. That conversation prompted me to find and read through this sub, and there's some seriously disturbing shit here.
So I knew what I was getting into when I married him though I secretly hoped he would still convert back. I walk on egg shells as well and feel like I am merely a maid, cook, nanny, etc I work to focus on the positive but the days are ing and lonely. Cold approaches on Mormon girls are challenging.