Also, as Joanna points out, men and women already inhabit a separate culture. Another thing to keep in mind: It's a very long, very hard journey to even get to that point of the MD marathon. However, I believe there are rules set, and we receive certain blessings when we obey said rules. If someone is going to cheat on you, it has nothing to do with their profession. Why Mormons don't hate gay people. Now Knowing your husband is surrounded by good looking women, makes you pray for them even harder. I know you got a zillion replies, and I have not read them. I was in your same position years ago. I know the majority of them are great, but there are so many who are like vultures and will latch on to any male doctor like he is theirs. Every school events, social gathering, especially weekend calls is making me sad.
And if you do belong to a ward full of cretins, you must do everyone a favor and just ignore them until they go extinct. We have known each other for many years. She's a shell of her former self and it breaks by heart to this day. I would have been deeply insulted if anyone talked about me the way people are talking about this girl He needs to tell her there is a no chance he will convert, that he is not comfortable with his children being raised Mormon if he isn'tthat she cannot ever expect a temple marriage with him. You can't gamble on her seeing Mormonism for the shit show that it is. Not a Medscape Member. Do not put up with bad behavior at any stage of a relationship. Mormon women are more likely to date outside of the religion than men, but also very unlikely to convert to a different religion. No one could compare to the man I married. Know her limits on substances.
Vh65, your marriage is a black swan. Sorry that you went through that. Eventually it turned into a sour argument. In the interfaith marriages that work where one is LDS and the other is not religious, it only works out when the LDS partner is not fully a believer anymore. I've been in a similar situation before. Never marry someone with the goal of a post-marriage conversion. Breaking up with someone solely because of religion is something people condemn alot on this sub when its a Mormon breaking it off with a non Mormon, but if floats both ways. Please see above link for full rules. All these link from LDS. Its fascinating that in so many women are defining themselves by their MD husbands like we are in s season from Mad Men.
I do nearly all of the parenting fortunately we only have one child -- we both agree that this lifestyle is too demanding for more and find that my husband's crazy hours and the energy drain of the job make me yearn to connect with other wives that relate.
And sometimes I think we equate easiness with happiness. If you can genuinely deconvert her then cool. The ex gets it all lol.