You might need to trade missionary lessons for research on her part, and we can suggest less scary resources. This isn't encouraging to me, it's sad. Remember she will only try to convert you because she thinks it is in your best interest. If she had to choose one issue to dedicate her life to, it would be gender equality. My husband is midway throug his first year of cardiology fellowship and we have been having a tough time lately. My dear faithful LDS aunt married a good non-member man. Is it really worth it to give up what I want out of a relationship because its hard to balance studying which I understand is stressful and being with the person who makes you happy. Take issues as they arise, rather than throwing away what could be a good experience for you and her based off of what might happen. And of course we have been taughtвby Brigham Young, at leastвthat even when Christ comes during the Millenium there will be those who will not accept him as their Savior even if they accept him as the leader of the world. And unless they are total cretins your ward members will love him too.
I used to be religious when I was a kid. They require a healthy dose of flexibility, nontraditional expectations, and teamwork You aren't always gonna have a Christmas etc I can understand it would be hard to understand the cues you are getting if you have no basis for that lifestyle, but really think it over. Listen, you are in a bad situation and it just has not come to a head yet. No one could compare to the man I married. If you do believe it fully, are you not really going to want him to make the conversion ultimately. The independent work is just as important as the work we do as a couple. So if you marry a doctor do not have low expectations, but learn early to take third parties out of your marriage even if you have to call them directly and tell theey do not matter to me. Second, in my experience mormons have been some of the kindest people I've ever had the privilege to know, and they have not lived up to the cult image you describe. Then again, I doubt any man who's not in medicine is willing to put up with the sacrifices of being a neurosurgeons husband. Right now she won't even watch a movie.
And sometimes I think we equate easiness with happiness. Now Knowing your husband is surrounded by good looking women, makes you pray for them even harder. Inthe same year she moved cross-country again. I am professor, and he is a surgeon in his first year as an attending. When I acquired a personal testimony of the gospel as a teen, and made my own decisions regarding my faith, I felt very alone. And on the other hand the thought of having to go through these residency years ahead haunts me. Include your email address to get a message when this question is answered. Maybe about a year ago. With so much pervasive degeneracy in the media, Mormon parents think they are safe showing their kids Disney movies. You can consider some positive activities and allow you to communicate and learn from each other.
I had many, many friends who moved this quickly during courtship, too. Catholics basically married catholics and protestants basically married protestants. My wife expects me to understand her situation but whiles I am willing to understand, I wish she would make some effort to etch out some quality time for us when she is not stressed out and grumpy and irritable.
Then I do my own work I am a recruiter and I work remotely most of the time, which is incredibly convenient for our relationship.