And there's a story I'm going to look again for too. Play with fire if you don't fear getting burned. The two of us are going on an overnight this weekend. Just an idea, I have no idea what would actually work for her. She, her family, and her friends all believe that she can't get into the Celestial Kingdom VIP Heaven unless she is "sealed" to a Mormon husband. How do you handle the ocd behavior. Would she be okay with having a home that is split religiously. He's a big boy and can make up his own mind. When I expressed how upset and sad I was he told me simply that he works hard and that is how he wants to spend his money and what he plans to do. But my relationship with him is worth this small sacrifice.
Things have worked out pretty well with us so far. I went back to school and received a Master's degree from a prestigious university Driving more than an hour each way 6 days a week to so; doing several excavation seasons and tons of research in order to achieve a cherished goal that had been denied me as a young woman. What do they all do from 8am-2. He has become engrossed with pornography and having cybersex via cam with random women he meets in game rooms. I am literally too lazy to get up and get the computer. She's a shell of her former self and it breaks by heart to this day. Those were difficult both in terms of terminology and in understanding what was going on medically. If yes, do you promise to not proselytize to me and let me drink a simple cup of coffee in my own home. Let them see the good in you, and believe that their son or daughter has found a good match. I, too, am the wife of a doctor dermatology resident.
I don't want that to happen. I grew away from mine as my husband then-boyfriend slowly grew closer to his Mormon faith. Once she realizes you won't join and she can't get married in the temple, then I suspect everything will be over. I agree with what you and so many of the other replies have said: Listen with an open heart and curiosity. I had many, many friends who moved this quickly during courtship, too. Lok for certain things: Spend some time with a few and you will know what to look for. I love talking religion with him and I have never pressured him to change his habits or anything else about him. I ask myself that every day. You can be very committed to someone but only be able to fit them in the limited free time you have. No one understands our lifestyle or how difficult it can be, not even my best friend and or family members no matter how hard they try to.
When mormon married a mormon and failed miserably. Then the girl decided still not to date him after all. Harmony will prevail if the husband appreciates the value of church service and attendance.