Do you believe in the Gospel as taught by the Church. Like it was mentioned above, see how she deals some of the issues now and if she can't handle it, it might be better to find someone else. It sucks to admit, but I broke up with him after 6 months because I didn't think there was any point if we couldn't be together forever. Brown May 27, 0. I think doctors have a different perspective of death and loss, because they deal with it so much. Reading your messages I don't feel bad about being in the shadow of his career. I so agree with all these points about surviving medicine. Anonymous, You are definitely one of the the club. Learn from Experienced Professionals. He isn't in school and doesn't have much idea about what it is like to be in my shoes.
The fact she's dating you while you aren't a Mormon is at least a sign of hope. On weekends he likes to go out and get away from medicine usually at a bar and although I'm with him I'm not with the real true version of him. Is your mind made up and you want justifying support. This is the type of doctrine that Joseph rejected and so have the leaders of the church. And for mormons, the goal is always a temple marriage and a marriage for the eternities. But daytime game is the key. She views patriarchy as a quality of God. Cold approaches on Mormon girls are challenging. Mormons who marry other Mormons in Mormon temples have a 6. But you are setting yourself up to leave the Church more easily, and even if you agree the children will be raised Mormon, your kids will likely not continue to participate in the Church as adults.
It's up to you to decide whether or not this is someone worth waiting for. I can pray for and with my youngest daughter and bless her thru prayer. If you can live with some auxiliary authority in your life knowing that your wife will, as necessary, bend to its will instead of yours, you'll cross those bridges as you come to them. If you decide to marry this man, you both will find a way to be happy and have a wonderful marriage, not that perfect that we see in the Sundays at Church. These are nice people. Despite having three children around, it gets super lonely. The church is really good at putting on a happy, wholesome face to show the world, but if you look behind the curtain, you see that it's a despicable cult. They are just really convinced they are right. As a Christian one's values won't allow an affair on the lonely spouse' part either - but that probably won't bug you by the sounds of it. I married outside the church and have no regrets.
I would not fear as much as she does, but that is her reality. Thought the girl and I had a future, and we did, just not with each other I'll bet there are hundreds of boyfriend converts out there. Why would you behave any different now.