To me, the core question is, is this person inclined toward self transcendence are the inclined, desirous, self aware enough to be selfless. Like you I grew up with and taught the standard LDS beliefs about temple marriage, celestial kingdom, etc. Also not one Nickel will be tithed out of any shared funds. I have to say that reading this is exactly what I needed today. All you have to do is be honest about your username here and you'll never see her again. When she had a strict 6: If there was a disagreement, one person was supposed to submit to the other, consult a rulebook that covered almost everything, or turn to a church leader to decide for them. More than often, these men cheat and will trade up as soon as they start making some money. If you and she are not sealed, your children won't be sealed to either of you. I don't remember much of the breakup because it's been overshadowed by what happened to her afterwards. You guys sound like you have a great and committed relationship - a true jewel in this world.
Honestly, I have given up on lds men as a single 25 year old. Btw, you bringing up CES letter shit before thanksgiving will guarantee a very awkward time with the GF and probably the family for the day. More than often, these men cheat and will trade up as soon as they start making some money. I was thinking about this last night after listening to Radio West. I chanced upon this post because I was looking for help. You need to do something interesting and keep her faith up. All you have to do is be honest about your username here and you'll never see her again. Sadly, my ward shuns us. Looking back, I can say that when I received this answer to my prayers, I was at one of the most spiritually high moments of my life. She will be surprised that a non-Mormon holds the same values she does and respect you.
The truth is I miss being together. But I do still largely consider us an interfaith couple. You should want to keep things new and interesting, as you would in any relationship, while still allowing your date to maintain the standards of her faith. But if you are with someone who is plainly selfish or dishonest or mean, then don't let them use their occupation as an excuse. I think love and caring can be more important. I just feel relieved that I'm not the only one feeling like this. Do you truly believe in temple marriage as a requirement for Celestial attainment. Oh well, I'll just pretend she's not mormon and see what happens. You can have all the time in the world and not be committed. Initially I thought he would join the church and life would get back on the only track I knew.
But I've met those 3 dates to engagement couples. If she was anything like me, that idea is probably foreign, radical, confusing, interesting, and inspiring to her. I was the bishops' daughter who went to BYU but didn't go on a mission because I was already married with a 10 month old by my 21st birthday.