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She may have served a mission as an ultimatum to herself. My faith, while less orthodox, has certainly matured. However, like the comment posted on March 18th the program only had one or two wives and the ones they do have are busy with their kids. At first it didn't bother me, but after a while I started feeling more like a booty call and less like a SO. So, one would one think, "yay, she works, has a life and friends and has avoided the ongoing loneliness and "empty nest syndrome". Mormons observe the Sabbath closely, so Sundays are for attending church meetings and focusing on their spirituality. Hey, thanks for the info. I've told people money doesn't buy love. Vh65, your marriage is a black swan. Trying to maintain a long-distance relationship with someone at home or attempting to date someone you meet while on mission are both distractions.
Unless you have some super amazing other dating prospect there isn't a huge reason to cut this relationship off now.
By that I mean that we ought to consider simply marrying within the faith and in the temple for all the reasons that people have given. There will be pressure to go to church, marry in the temple, Yada Yada You will want to make sure you're ready to battle this for years, maybe a lifetime. We'll see how long till last I have my business degree and work in a male Dominated environment so I have choices. This woman has already given two full years fully devoted to the institution without question. That is the shit storm on the road ahead of you. Otherwise her family will likely feel incomplete to her. The important thing is that you are getting to know one another, not that you are always doing fancy things. I understand that, and accept that. There is no way she will may you without you going to the temple. Thanks - I searched but couldn't find it.
Communicate and get those answers, OP. Additionally, you need to take stock of your beliefs and acknowledge they may change overtime. You never walks you'll never know. This I knew before we married and accepted. Jesus might have seemed like a cute, imaginary playmate at first, but on some level I would have been expecting to help her get over it. With that same attitude they will rise up on the other side of the veil. Hi Op, I wouldn't worry about the lack of constant contact too much. Signs of Male Attraction: Reading a Man's Body Language. Toxic is the right word. I learned, growing up, that very principle, that you HAD to marry a member or your marriage was doomed.
Or get them met elsewhere. I grew up in a very strict Mormon home and dated only Mormon men until I met my now husband. Trying to maintain a long-distance relationship with someone at home or attempting to date someone you meet while on mission are both distractions. After two years of being together with very few problems, it ended within 30 minutes of having "The Talk" about my future religiosity.
It sounds like if we were to have a happy ending, it wouldn't be quite so happy because of how we raise our kids or how the rest of the family would treat me forever We'll discuss it again in more depth now that I have a few specific concerns about what our future together might look like.