And yes, some people are unbelievably stupid about it. A couple of things I run into most is that people assume I am also Mormon. However, and this might sound sad. I grew away from mine as my husband then-boyfriend slowly grew closer to his Mormon faith. When my wife and I married, we were very different, but I found all the differences delightful. There will, in fact, still be churches besides our own. All in good time, my dear. All of which will remind her that she wants you to convert so you can be together for eternity. My husband is finishing up residency and is never around. All your beloved friends and family are in Seattle.
And on the other hand the thought of having to go through these residency years ahead haunts me. Bet as Joanna has said there are some things you should think carefully about в and this needs to be done with your head, not your heart. That said, Mormons have learned to have fun without alcohol and often have to wait until drinkers are well-oiled and loosened up to join in the dopey-ness. While Scientology is way worse hopefully the parallels will get her thinking. The odds are definitely not in OPs favor for something like this working for him. And it was the most miserable and lousy choice I ever made. I suppose it depends on your personality. Yes have moved away from family at 7 months pregnant to knowing no-one and starting from scratch and having no support network especially from husband who couldn't wait to get away and had the cheek to say he dreaded coming home some nights, poor him, I dreaded being home most days. We visit when he has a rotation that gives him weekends off, and compromise sleep and fun. Single parent when I met her.
The one I met was full of himself, a slob, and really not that great to women. When she goes on a mission, she will go through the temple which means she will be wearing garments. For every lesson and sermon preached about loving everyone, there are one or two lessons on avoiding outsiders because they will destroy your eternity. Either you are just fun for now or she wants to change you. Never ask vague questions and give her definite options instead. Dating a mormon girl. Just an idea, I have no idea what would actually work for her. I don't remember much of the breakup because it's been overshadowed by what happened to her afterwards. The argument progressed to I do not feel comfortable moving with you unless there is some sort of "promise. I miss my husband dearly.
She wants the eternal temple marriage and you will be her long term project TL;DR I considered ending my marriage of Save yourself pain by getting out before it gets harder. The brethren have taught that there is an ideal pattern for marriage. I have no support in this and so many of the DW have just accepted this life I just cant ,I want more There are so many days I wish I had a normal life and he had a normal job.
Here is a list of reasons I feel apply to my situation в some of them in retrospect:.