Its fascinating that in so many women are defining themselves by their MD husbands like we are in s season from Mad Men. He might just be unpracticed at your "love language". I believe that we are all on different paths, but that it is possible for us to travel on different paths side-by-side. I mentioned in another post that I am okay with us not seeing each other all the time. They were taught that bold sincerity of purpose and a charitable attitude is what makes a man. Good luck to you. I think your response is Bang on. However, we rarely ever see each other and don't talk that much in between. Rights of all genders are supported here. Or when I get up at 5: So far I have not brought up any of this with him because I'm trying to offer all of that support and space you mentioned and I wanted to give him the chance to do it himself.
Look up all the threads of people who are dealing with their true believing spouses -- the guilt, the silence, the bad communication, the hostage-taking. Also, don't forget, some people just arent very good at conveying emotions. And if it's notyou need to find someone in a different field. I love him more than anyone else I've been with - but it takes a strong, patient woman willing to sacrifice a lot, to date a doctor. My experience has been that personal similarities and differences are a bigger element than cultural differences. All faiths have vocabulary unique to them. If I just kind of take things as they come, everyone is happier. I would love any advice you can give. Forget what anyone else says or expects of you. Soon you'll feel better, because you're not alone.
My experience with non members has been so much more meaningful and caring. Don't fall in love with a doctor. There are billions of other girls out there who I wouldn't have issues like this with. Tell her that you want your relationship with her, and her relationship with your children together to be separate from her religion with her god. They will serve as a constant reminder to her that she needs to conform- and you won't be wearing any. A patient of his went into labor, was having a rough time and he spent the next 32 hours at the hospital. We get along exceptionally well and I really like him though, so I can see this going somewhere. If you aren't sealed together, say good-bye for eternity. While there are some differences noted here, in many ways you should treat them the same way you would girls of other faiths. Be open and talk about your ideals.
All the other stuffв is crap. Would you rather give up the prospect of being married in the temple, the assurance of children being raised in the church, and parts of Mormon culture for your boyfriend, or a great man for your beliefs.
Only idiots are unfriendly to non-Mormon spouses. I suggest to run as it will not get better. Religious differences, however are real.