I tried to make the marriage work but we were at two different emotional places in our lifes. My mom always said the more you have, the more it owns you, so true. Wow, every word resonates. We try to have a 'date' night although at the moment it is about once a month. When he comes home he's so exhausted and just wants to veg out and this leaves me alone again. I can't take it. We seem to be one two different planets communication in two different languages. This is by design. He completely flipped the switch. Apr 4, 0.
There's this fantasy perpetuated in the religion that if you're good and pure enough, that any man you meet would eventually see the truth and join the church for you. I was an ordinary doctor until I found Medscape.
That said, I like to hope that love can be more powerful than belief. However, be careful to not ask something that may offend your date.
We have all felt it and our house seems absolutely different. You I think are ok with that. There are many great and wonderful people in the church, and the real evil about the church is that it harms those great and wonderful people. There's a ton of crazy in what we were taught all our lives. You would think surrounded by kids and being off every day would not be lonely but never having anyone to share your kids achievements with in person is hard. I went in thinking "oh, we can definitely do this. I chose to get married and move across the state to live with my husband and left my job, family and friends and let me tell you, it's been tremendously difficult to meet new friends in the new town. I think marriage means sacrifice on both sides. Post was not sent - check your email addresses. So I understand how it's easy to believe nonsense when you're brainwashed from birth, and how it can be comforting to believe your life is somehow very important in the grand scale of the universe, and how you don't have to be afraid of death because you'll go on to a better place where you'll live happily ever after for eternity.
Trust yourself, trust God and enjoy the beautiful relationship that you have. For any woman who does not want to sacrifice her career goals…. He will not be permitted to bless the child in front of the ward, for instance, so you will have to choose to forego that ritual or find someone else to stand in for the father, which he may not be comfortable with. Little did I know that at least some of these "emergencies" were actually rendezvous with his affair partner. Some day he hopes to make it to Romania and settle down. I forgot to mention that we've only been dating for 6 mo. They are just really convinced they are right. They therefore have a high standard to work toward. She hasn't submitted the paperwork yet but I have no doubt that she will do this eventually. They're hidden pretty deep on LDS.
That being said, we have built something beautiful and good, have modeled loving responsibility and accountability to our kids, and I am certain I am with the man God chose for me. If not watch it. Just let things keep going. The history of racism and violence is upsetting.