It will poison your marriage until the end в of your life, your marriage, or your belief. But, if ever were there were a time to be overly cautious it's with this topic. If she doesn't care that you aren't a member now, if your relationship goes on long enough, she is going to care eventually. She will be surprised that a non-Mormon holds the same values she does and respect you. If you do believe it fully, are you not really going to want him to make the conversion ultimately. She has to come to the realization that the church may not be infallible, it can't be forced on her or proven to her. I would advise you to try to be as understanding as you can of her point of view, because having you world view shattered is very difficult and can take a long time to recover from. So there's THAT to look forward to. Response to your edit: Do NOT bring up or mention anything that could be considered "anti Mormon. In childhood, that includes the majority.
And here we are with our trivial problems. Do not make anything risque public. Odds are majorly against this dude. One thing that has helped my husband and I was a marriage class we joke that it was more like marriage therapy when we had only been married two years. I think the most important thing is to bring up the issues as questions rather than points as why she's wrong. Develop Your Own Curriculum. Real love just happens. Better than freezing up and avoiding them altogether. If it were me, I would be flattered they had that much time to spend on me. She can only get sealed to him in a Mormon temple.
I have my own profession and my own interests, and was definitely not pursuing a doctor for intimate partnership, but I quickly realized that my environment started seeing me as only girlfriend of Dr. I am deeply hurt and am a very lonely doctor's wife. I felt like I was 'on call' for when he would be available to see me. Every new set in our ward looks at him as fresh meat. Would she be okay spending a Sunday to an atheist space with you. There's a picture of the magic rock he found while digging a neighbor's well. Some other times I admire myself and ask God for help. She honestly believes that she has the truth, and that if you are exposed to it enough you will recognize that. If you are willing to wait, then well and good; otherwise, it is best to move on. Fifty years later, not one of her 3 children, her dozen grandchildren or her numerous great grandchildren is an active member of the LDS church.
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