No one could compare to the man I married. We visit when he has a rotation that gives him weekends off, and compromise sleep and fun. Really have to walk in someone's shoes to understand. See her good qualities for what they are and see it as a good relationship to remember. Hi ladies, I'm looking for some advice. And I'll disagree with the other person who responded to your comment. I hope you can make this work out. I am a soon-to-be Surgeon's wife and my boyfriend and I have started discussing the changes that are going to happen when he enters his residency. I'm on mobile and it isn't letting me post the URL. I am a happily married mono-faith guy who has no testimony of dusted base boards.
Not being an RM, they weren't really interested in me. I am afraid of what these years ahead could mean to our family; make it or break it. Yeah man, don't doubt someone who was a missionary will try to convert you. She seems to be ok with that, and wants to continue our relationship, and also talks about wanting marriage and children, and raising those children to be mormon like her even if I'm not religious. Joanna has written a good answer here. If you are a believer and are willing to go, then well and good. As a general authority I knew, now deceased, told me in the mid-eightiesвIf you find a good man who is not LDS, marry him. The hospital had become, by his own admission, his "family", and he had virtually abandoned us to this demanding career. Have been MD in good relationship for 25 years with kids etc but key is that my wife has her own life and works as hard as I do at her own career and isn't caught up in my world. There's a ton of crazy in what we were taught all our lives.
But no one can move on to one of the 3 Kingdoms until they accept Christ and totally repent. It is hard work. I love my husband with my whole soul. In fact, the church is designed to help people come unto Christ, who is the only one who can change our hearts and help us overcome ourselves to come back to him. The most damning information is in the footnotes of the essays. If she was anything like me, that idea is probably foreign, radical, confusing, interesting, and inspiring to her. While it's true that Mormons are not one-dimensional and completely predictable, the odds of a successful relationship, given the OP's description of his girlfriend, are slim. We need to come to a decision pretty soon and I really need some insight. You need to repent and change. I don't think anyone here intended a dismissal of the girl as a human being by stating such.
I do think this girl is a keeper, and I'm more than willing to tolerate, be patient and live with the crazy schedule. The Mormon culture has mastered the forked tongue. I still cry every night for himbecause I love himprobably always will. I have a friend who identifies as bi-gendered and often feels most comfortable in femme. But I love him so much.