I've been dating my girl for 5 years and we have just broke up because she told me she likes someone else but she say she still loves me I have been married for 8 months, my husband is starting his training in orthopaedics Never imagined my life will be like this The 3 years we were together prior marriage when he was an intern were not like this at all I read all the comments and I can see there no much hope for things to improve Constant absences, constants arguments, I have to make myself available when he is available, I am an architect, I have a demanding job myself, but still beings doctor seems to be a lot more important than my career. As such, it tends to attract the young and insecure. I don't think we are going to end up being friends but I'll get over that. The goal of dating at that age is to broaden your social circle and learn more about yourself. The doctrinal and afterlife issues around a non-temple marriage are an entirely different topic, and one that I am personally much more at peace with than my questions about how one might make an interfaith marriage work in this life. Right now she won't even watch a movie. Of course I feel slighted at times, but I check myself and remember that my SO is doing his best given all his demands. Easily found in most hospital lobbies. Give them a hour to de-stress once they get home. Would I like to have him by my side.
In fact, the church is designed to help people come unto Christ, who is the only one who can change our hearts and help us overcome ourselves to come back to him. My husband and I have a much closer relationship than ever before and I just hope that another blue eyed nurse doesn't come along to distract him. You can't provide that for her so your marriage will be defective from the outset. All your beloved friends and family are in Seattle. Don't expect a traditional marriage I am sorry for your story. Good communication, love, support and understanding are the things you should consider. I am a staff nurse and my boyfriend is in his last year in medicine school whos now havong rough tough junior internships. He has changed so much over the years and is very impatient with the kids. It will definitely take patience to work through any of this with her but it sounds like she's a pretty awesome person. Everyone seems to be supporting the idea that he is just too busy, but the truth is we over the internet can't judge his intent.
Children thrive on clarity and consistency. The scriptures say that one of the main reasons good people don't join the church is because they just haven't been introduced to it. Know her limits on substances. I'm on the same page as you. Then an explanation of the nature of your soul and where it came from and where it's going. I know a lot of Mormons who were also not raised on fear and guilt and strict gender rolesвbut I was, as were many of my peers. Narcissism, androgyny, obsession with pop cultureвthe problems with Western women go on and on. But what I discovered surprised me. Don't expect this to be like the others. Or the links, in that first vision one.
I could go on, but this should give you the idea. LDS theology heavily promotes the idea that marriage and family are an important source of happiness in this life, not just the next. With his compartmentalized mind, if I walk away, he will close that door and move on. I completely agree with you.