NeverMo in CA Date: NeverMo in CA Wrote: I've read many of the stories here and I know the religion is toxic. If you want to date a Mormon guy or girl, then the best way to meet singles is by visiting the Church. Keep your power, girls, and keep the marriage egalitarian. The ones who already had concerns start questioning. I was spiritually prepared to receive the answer that I sought. And of course we have been taughtвby Brigham Young, at leastвthat even when Christ comes during the Millenium there will be those who will not accept him as their Savior even if they accept him as the leader of the world. Sometimes it's easy to forget all the wonderful times we had together before he got into med school. That's the real issue. A lot of people will tell you to run but if she is in her late 20s most Mormon guys her age are married. But i too am afraid to endure this.
I have two babies, 3 months and 3 years old and I believe they probably think my dr husband is an uncle or a distance relative bc their daddy was away for fellowship for over a yr and now away bc of his job. All those are reasons to give the church some elbow room but they are not reasons for actually staying. That being said, no matter what the cause, I wasn't getting what I needed out of it and I had to make the decision to either keep things the status quo or move on. What do you occupy your time with. My faith, while less orthodox, has certainly matured. Did you know Joseph smith married the wives of other living men. In response to your comment about being with that creative director think all relationships have problems. Leave her so you can both find people that youre more suited for. Best to all of you, and may God Fate help us all. I was so happy and went to him, that was how we started living together happily again.
How convenient for him. Good luck and my prayers are with you. If she is full on Mormon, this relationship will go one of two ways: You will convert and change your entire lifestyle and personality to conform with her expectations never to deconvert or you will face severe penalitesor you will break up because you won't convert and change everything about yourself. He might just be unpracticed at your "love language". Looking back, I can say that when I received this answer to my prayers, I was at one of the most spiritually high moments of my life. She found the perfect Mormon guy, they were married in the temple. From her summary, he just did not understand her dilemma at all. If you are all sealed together, you will be together forever in the Celestial Kingdom. He also brought up issues with the church when we discussed religion so slowly he brought to light some disturbing facts and even though I would have denied it, it got to me. He is just very dedicated to his patients.
Maybe we'll break up in a month. Reconciling this with the doctrine of temple marriage is trickier. A straight-laced, returned sister missionary, raised in the cult, and in family of similarly entrenched cult members, will not likely remain happy with a non-member.