I give input into our activities for dates, and this works out well since we're very compatible and like spending leisure time the same way. She might not be keeping the Word of Wisdom, living according to the Law of Chastity, or attending church regularly. I feel for you. It sounds like she's already considered marrying you and raising children in the church even with you being out of the church. Again, reiterating it, don't expect a decade's worth of time with her, but enjoy her good while you two are together. Subreddit Rules Please see above link for full rules. It had been going on for years. I'll bring up some CES letter issues, let her know why I wouldn't want my children raised like this, and we'll see what happens. If you really like this girl, might want to show her this. Thanks so much for the links.
Harmony will prevail if the husband appreciates the value of church service and attendance. We have almost daily prayers, scripture reading, and lengthy discussions about our beliefs. Each to their own though. Do you have any knowlege of the bible. I think my husband would do okay with the loneliness - just like I do. This could possibly be worked out with some communication; perhaps he just hasn't given it enough thought to realize how shitty it is It's very inconsiderate of him. A Mormon will tearfully and emotionally recite whichever lesson they need at the given moment. I have feeling you stopped pursuing anyone unlikely to go for you. She will be oh-so-grateful if you do not pressure her to discard those values. If you try to deconvert her I suggest indirectly at first.
I let her know it's not healthy to expect someone else to change - we can only control ourselves and not others. Although there are no strict rules as to who should do the asking, the Mormons are very conservative and in general, they expect guys to do the asking. I was not moving with him until there was a promise and it would still take me a few months to find a job and relocate. It is not something that should be taken lightly. And our strength doesn't necessarily come from ego or wealth. Heck his sleeps best with me on his chest. You can't provide that for her so your marriage will be defective from the outset. I can accept her, and she's told me she can accept me The challenging part for me now is the idea of putting my kids through the brainwashing. I'm not saying you shouldn't pursue the relationship, but I'd only recommend marrying her if she leaves the church because she discovers it's not true. Yes, worse than intern year.
Keep your power, girls, and keep the marriage egalitarian. The goal of dating at that age is to broaden your social circle and learn more about yourself. On the plus side though, after you leave the church, you'll get to spend the remainder of your days bashing it on Reddit.