We have moved four times to 3 different states to accommodate his career, and had 3 children along the way. You could even pass it off as you investigating the church and you stumnled accross these essays on lds. I'm sorry you may be hearing a lot of negativity from us. Additionally, you need to take stock of your beliefs and acknowledge they may change overtime. And, whether she knows it or not she probably does know it but is in denialshe probably sees you as her ticket out of Oldmaidsville. I married a NOMO after a lengthy temple marriage and divorce. Give yourself some credit for being attracted to the good side of the Force. It is always a nice idea to plan for your date in advance. In my view, baptism at 8 is just a variation on infant baptism. Should I stay or let him do his thing.
Because if you can't live and let live, you both need to dive deep into this stuff and figure out what you believe and want in your life. When I complain that I spent two days without seeing him and when he arrives home just keeps on answering his phone as if he was at work The other day a colleague called just to complain about a patient of theirs at 8: These people have no sense of privacy. Discover the joys of a non-sexual relationship and find sincere ways to show affection without sex. Some Mormon girls succumb to worldly laziness. Love the man you are going to marry- warts and all he loves yours as well. But the idea of marrying my husband felt right from almost the get-go and, my patriarchal blessing made so much more sense. Hi, I am not a doctor's wife. But please also know that the people who love you are hoping you make the right decision because they want you to be happy. At the risk of overloading this post, I'm going to copy and paste here, a Reddit comment that I made in this exmo sub the other day. I don't think you necessarily need to cut ties with her.
My doctor husband also has a daughter from a previous marriage who he travels to see every other weekend. Do you have a few suggestions for talking points I may want to bring up from stuff directly on LDS. Would she want you to attend church with her. Love and support them just as you would if your husband was a carpenter. Very wise words when tell others to take a very cold hard look at there life. So, I can only imagine the stories you hear. I think she sounds great but she won't be able to not bring it up. I have never been your typical domestically skilled stay at home mom. The average debt of a med school graduate is aboutUSDwhich normally takes up to 30 years to pay off and consequentially amounts to aroundUSD of total debt with accrued interest added in. She will introduce you to the church.
That said, there are also a lot of pricks inside the church, who fully deserve membership. We both love eachother and I support him as he supports me while im in school as well. She'll be hoping that you're going to convert and if neither is happy with the other being as they are, you'll find yourself divorced shortly down the road.
If this happens, it might click something in her mind that says that what she experienced was pleasurable and she would like to have it again.