Never marry someone with the goal of a post-marriage conversion. Trying to maintain a long-distance relationship with someone at home or attempting to date someone you meet while on mission are both distractions. I am trying to help him stay at the church nth work, I think if I really love him like I always tell him I should let him chose and love him the way he is. The big one is that under Mormon theology both of you must be believing, fully active members to live together in the afterlife. Or get them met elsewhere. My sisters married to the temple served a mission etcв. Eventually you will get engaged and married and have babies and buy a house together. My husband is a medical oncologist who deals primarily with ovarian cancer. So I feel like we have to wait yet another year just for the daunting part of it to start. She found the perfect Mormon guy, they were married in the temple.
I was definitely taking the "Tough love" approach because I've read countless times on this and other boards, how Mormons claimed that they were cool with their SO not being Mormon, and that they weren't, themselves, orthodox. On the other hand, if you believe God is bigger than we can imagine, and is not constrained by religious dogma, you have as good a chance as any at a happy, thriving relationship. Dating a dr is hard. When I acquired a personal testimony of the gospel as a teen, and made my own decisions regarding my faith, I felt very alone. That being said, there are some facets of the religion that you should be aware of that will influence how she approaches both you and the relationship. When my nephews started looking at porn on computers everybody blamed me when it wasn't me. Sadly, I'm not sure at this point. Personally I have a rule that I will not enter a relationship with a believing Mormon. Break up with her. Thank you for this.
They are not God. I told her that I want to only be friends. I wish you the best of luck. This insecurity is at the root of the princess syndrome. If we can say them together, great; if not. What's not to like about being a doctor's wife. It sounds like you have found a good one. I hope that makes sense. I don't think it's going overboard, though, to state one very possible and very likely scenario, and that is that this girl may likely be completely indoctrinated and believing. He never has time for me.
Things are very hard for me right now too. Leave a Reply Cancel reply Your email address will not be published. Not being an RM, they weren't really interested in me. She has to decide for herself what she believes, but you can definitely help expose her to new ideas.