I look forward to reading more. All I can recommend, as a docs wife of nearly 30 years, is prayer or to book a few sessions with a psychologist. That is her ultimate goal when it comes to dating and choosing potential mates. My family is pretty awesome in the church. I don't think you should abandon the relationship just because she is lds. I tell her there's no pressure and we'll just see how things play out. Subreddit Rules Please see above link for full rules. Without going into too much personal detail, I received a very real, strong prompting that I should marry this girl. He can't make a mental switch easily to adjust to our pace of life. He should tell her that he will never convert, and that if she will not be happy unless he does, the relationship should end.
Work out as many as you can before marriage happens. I recommend that talk. Mormonism is fundamental to my religious beliefs and my personal sense of identity, and it is the community that I identify with most strongly. I am a something male. No sex before marriage. Topics like race and polygamy have been "adequately" explained away, so I don't think we'd get anywhere discussing those things. It will be nice to have time to do things for myself. I love his way of loving me,his compassion towards our relationship,his loyalty ,reason for mine marrying him not for his paycheck but I guess I also need a companion,a life partner,someone who will be beside me when ill be needing him the most. Even Mormon girls who marry non-Mormons want great dads for their kids, and they are oriented to having kids, sometimes many kids. The reality is that while God gave us a gospel of love and stands always ready to give us a helping hand, his mercy will not rob his justice.
Mormon's view marriages outside the temple to be counterfeit and you can't get into the temple without converting to the religion. I'm not trying to be mean, just very clear. She was masterful at hiding the cuts and bruises with clothing. I asked, he refused. I would advise you to try to be as understanding as you can of her point of view, because having you world view shattered is very difficult and can take a long time to recover from. Hence the suspicious quotes around "adequately. I understand your internal conflict completely and my heart goes out to you. Make sure you are According to the teachings of the Church, Mormon youth should not date before the age of This is more of a custom than a hard rule, but it is a good standard to follow, as you will probably not be mature enough to effectively handle that kind of personal relationship before then. Salaries for doctors are declining, with my boyfriend telling me that some nurses now make more than the lowest paid medical specialty - pediatrics. Thanks for the help.
I think she felt that it was important for me to understand the types of challenges in an interfaith marriage. If you like her, and I'm assuming you do, I would suggest you continue the relationship and see how things pan out. If you can put yourself in his shoes, you would understand that, first of all, he is barraged by hungry patients all wanting answers and a piece of him. It is soooo difficult to cope.