While a part of me is sad about not having a temple marriage and getting sealed together I have hope that this could change while we are on this earth and I have faith in an ever-loving Father in Heaven who is kind and just and will be able to provide a way for my family to live together in the eternities. Does your new girlfriend have eight brothers and sisters. I love my non-member husband of nearly 20 years. The first key question to as is: If the answer is yes then the relationship sounds like it's doomed. I tell her there's no pressure and we'll just see how things play out. Would she want you to attend church with her. If you both comfortable having different faiths, your relationship can still be rewarding and fulfilling. It seems to me like you are walking into a relationship where there is a significant disconnect from the start. Do know that dating an MD, there will be plenty of unexpected changes when you two have plans, and you will need to have strength and be able to entertain yourself at times. It's also possible that deep down she's like many of us here, and her shelf will break and she'll want out.
What about the folks at church. As a non-Mormon male widower Catholic contemplating marrying a devout temple recommended widow, I thank you all for the wonderful blog. And you will be shocked. I am sooooo proud of him but his career has broken me in a way I don't know if I can piece back together. Sadly, my ward shuns us. Do you want to be married in the temple. I learned, growing up, that very principle, that you HAD to marry a member or your marriage was doomed. I would go ahead and make boundaries with the conversation about kids and church, if that is your preference. Don't put them through that either. And occasionally I have queried the wisdom of that choice.
It's like talking to a wall. I had tears in my eyes and goosebumps while reading it. December 16, Dating a mormon girl. Just as secular marriages have problems, so do temple marriages. She's admitted to loving me before but she has problems and issues with what she wants. And you know what. When you are a man married to a female doctor. I'm a nevermo, but I married a then TBM girl, so maybe my perspective will be of help to you. Plus there's a lot of things we didn't get taught growing up that are slowly coming out through the Internet. God knows the big picture.
Become a Redditor and subscribe to one of thousands of communities. I've told people money doesn't buy love. You can watch them all in about a half an hour and you'll know almost everything you need to know. Most likely, the relationship isn't going to survive your differences in belief.
Have you seen southpark episode on Mormons.