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Read our FAQ s. His hospital "family" protected this information well, silently acquiescing and even approving his behavior. Mormonism, like many extreme religions, often stunts the growth of its members. This is tough enough when the kids are babies, but when they're older - teenagers - you'll get to tackle all of the hormone-fueled angst, drama, school difficulties, homework, school activities, and be the scapegoat when the kids get mad at you. Dating is a tricky game. I also know that my husband's job as a Surgeon is before us my kids and I. I am just short of living in a shelter because he has all of his pay going into a separate account for just him now and he has given access tot he account to his mistress. As I started to date and fall in love with my husband, almost everyone I knew was against it. So I knew what I was getting into when I married him though I secretly hoped he would still convert back. Now for the family part We are different people in one big way, I am very extroverted and say whatever's on my mind and he's introverted and everything is very thought out and he likes alone time.
I don't think people really understand how lonely it can get, unless you are married to one. And your future kids will be taught that you are the reason they don't have an "eternal" family. We had a long distant relationship for 3 years. The ex gets it all lol. Odds are majorly against this dude. But my relationship with him is worth this small sacrifice. Full respect and care. She's told me the church is one of the most important things to her, but from what I've researched already there's no way I would subject my future children to this culture. In areas with lots of single Mormons of dating and marriageable age, the Church has established singles wards. Cool Nicknames for Guys.
Know there are a lot of Doctors who cheat though. Either way, if you have kids and you don't convert, she will divorce you and take your kids away from you and you will be shunned from her community. You guys have very thick skin. If you can live with some auxiliary authority in your life knowing that your wife will, as necessary, bend to its will instead of yours, you'll cross those bridges as you come to them. She will try to convert you. This can be done. What goes on in those sacred temples. Fall in love, learn, make some mistakes, laugh, serve other people, reproduce, and let the whole story start again. I've read through some stuff there and it all seems pretty tame so far. You're only seeing what's on the surface of her Have enough people told you to run.
See if you can become involved only if it follows your strengths and desires. The two of you can get married in the temple and live together forever for eternity. That being said, there are some facets of the religion that you should be aware of that will influence how she approaches both you and the relationship.