Though our husband's are different we are very similar. It just gets so lonely you invariably commission yourself a single parent. I just wanted to let SN and AD know that, if you decide to choose this path, you are not alone. I am active in church, I take my kids regularly, and I have callings. We also struggle with infertility. She cannot get into the top echelons of heaven without being sealed to a worthy priesthood holder in the temple for time and all eternity. If someone is going to cheat on you, it has nothing to do with their profession. It's the sort of super dismissive "all women are the same" attitude that I learned in church and left to get away from. Since her father is a bishop, I'm sure he'll want to have his daughter marry a temple worthy person. Maybe more convinced than you are.
I am married to an interventional cardiologist. I'm a Mormon girl in love with an amazing non-Mormon man. Within a cultural group marriage is hard. I love his way of loving me,his compassion towards our relationship,his loyalty ,reason for mine marrying him not for his paycheck but I guess I also need a companion,a life partner,someone who will be beside me when ill be needing him the most. Now he is studying for this big exam and I have seen a very different side to him. You;ll get the answer you needвprayers and blessings for you both. I dated non mormon men. As I grew and became confident, I learned how to deal with social awkwardness. Hell we haven't even gone in a date yet. In my view, baptism at 8 is just a variation on infant baptism.
That conversation prompted me to find and read through this sub, and there's some seriously disturbing shit here. This is because if your relationship gets serious and you guys get married, then she may have to forgo many of the customs of her religion. Dating a resident is hard - it was hard to realize that I can't come first, or even second, in this relationship right now. You should be fine as long as you stick to the lines you have laid out. Some of my closest family and friends don't truly understand my life as hard as they try. I think the most important thing is to bring up the issues as questions rather than points as why she's wrong. Good thing is you can have multiple wives in heaven if you become exalted. We just moved in together and I am very afraid of his ocd ways and heavy opinions. This is wonderful and in accordance with the desires of a loving Father in Heaven, but it can turn a marriage on its ear, if the spouse is unprepared. We still have great sex 3 or 4 times a week and, no, he doesn't use Viagra, Ciasis, etc.
I do realize he may want me to be not so ambituous which I am. Thank you for your blog. I'm dating a lovely guy who is in his first year of medical residency. Given the high divorce rate in this particular specialty, it might have helped him if there were people in the environment who questioned his behavior or at the very least, registered some sort of disapproval.
And of course, everyone has a different experience.