But you can't make her think about the numerous facts that disprove Mormonism. The fact that she's planning to go on a mission should help. I recommend that talk. Does your new girlfriend have eight brothers and sisters. It is not something that should be taken lightly. I, too, am the wife of a doctor dermatology resident. It is much easier for the Holy Ghost to influence good people. Maybe watch "Going Clear" with her. Gem With Flaws Joined: While I do talk to my boyfriend everyday, it's usually not for long periods of time. My husband did his best to do the same though a medical career makes it a challenge.
It is amazing how different values and outlooks, interpersonal relationships can be from family to family. A grandpa sense of humor and occasional clever line from an old movie go a long way. I'm really glad I found this post today. There may be underlying personality similarities, but if the answer to "what shall I do next" is always trumped by a Morman frame of reference for one partner, but not the other, conflict is inevitable. Some mormon girls are closeted freaks as someone here has already said. She is going to be taught for the rest of her life in the church the importance of missionary work and eternal families, and Priesthood in the home. Thank you for your sacrifice. Sorry dude, she is in way to deep. I just feel relieved that I'm not the only one feeling like this. You can ask her directly, or through sources like other Mormons or reading their books.
I have learned this painfully with my child growing up in the LDS community. He hadn't realized it was the same weekend as my birthday, or even that it was a big birthday - 30. Thanks for commenting on my blog. Lots of really thorough replies. How do you really feel about that. Ive realized for the most part they are just too proudful and do not treat women very get. For instance, you probably want your children to be baptized into the Mormon faith when they are eight в is your fiancee okay with that. At best they just try to include you in the community, and at worst you are constantly told that you'll be welcome "when you're ready. We are best friends. She'll be hoping that you're going to convert and if neither is happy with the other being as they are, you'll find yourself divorced shortly down the road.
Best wishes to those struggling with these big, life-altering decisions. And no one has the right to judge you for your decision. And his wife is angry and unappreciative and has no idea how difficult his profession is.