We have a dynamic that includes some consensual non-consent i. If you enjoy consensual non-consent, you might enjoy this post. It hurts and stretches you and fills you up and aches. One of the sexiest things in the world is a guy asking for specifics. Let me come in your hair, wear the pretty boots, touch my cock, please please please let me do this. In the ass. His cock twitching and jerking as he shoots spunk deep inside your ass.
Girlonthenet is taking a short break right now, and will return in a second when she has finished frigging herself cross-eyed over the thought of buttsex ejaculation. So — excitable boys and spunk explosions — just a couple of reasons why anal sex is amazing.
But the main reason I like it is perhaps a bit more controversial — it hurts. And I mean really hurts. Depending on the size of the guy, buttsex can either be a bit uncomfortable or a world of agony.
The best boys will push me face down into the bed, put their full weight on top of me, wrap their arms around my chest and my throat, and whisper in my ear that I have to take it. That I should calm down. That I should shut the fuck up. I was lying in bed with number 26, him spooning me from behind with his massive arms gripping my chest and squeezing the air out of me. His cock was so hard, and he was pushing it right up against my ass.
I squirmed as he forced the head in, gently, then with a bit more pressure until I let out a gasp of shock. It hurt. And he was pushing. And it hurt. Now I have a raging; and I mean rock-hard, so hard it hurts, hardon and no one to stick it in. You have that effect on me; make me horny. Your words coupled with my own imagination aided by those little teasing shots you take never fails to fill me with lust and give me a rampant erection.
Ahhh, this gives me sweet sweet memories of my first time being fucked in the arse with a strap-on… something that definitely works for this guy as much as it does for you. The pain and the pleasure are inseparable… two sides of the same marvellous coin. I love anal sex. No surprise there. Also, it should not hurt if done properly. Ok, if the guy is huge then fine. Most have either been between slight discomfort and full on enjoyment with them pushing back on my cock, wanting more.
B — as a girl who really enjoys anal, I can tell you it hurts… even when done right. Even with the same guy. You just never know on each occasion. But… I never tell the dude when it hurts that much, I just keep moaning in a sexy way and hope that it goddamn fucking passes so we can get to the good stuff.
Fuck yeah! Painful, really? Maybe with a huge guy I once avoided anal with someone that was so huge, it was like a table leg. Discomfort yes, pain no. My trick is to totally relax the muscles consciously. Totally works for me. Then I can get on with feeling huts cock hit right off my gspot.
Anal is amazing for that. I did this for the first time recently… and let me tell you there is no other pain that can compare… but damn and fuck me… I am now addicted to getting fucked in the ass.
I have never felt something so amazing… damn I get wet and hungry just thinking about it. I am sorry that people are discussing your piece as if it was rape when it was infact a postitive experience for you, but as someone who has a bit of experience in the kink scene, please let me offer some unsolicited advice.
So long as with your partners you are being open and establishing clear lines of understanding and consent there is nothing wrong with this. Then you are putting not only yourself at risk, but your partner too.
Nobody wants to have something consensual turn into rape. Which is why people are freaking out, not because what you did was wrong, but because it did not come with an explanation as to why it was right. Thanks BigStrongDom — to be honest I realised fairly shortly after this was published a long long time ago that it should have come with a wrap with more info on the context.
Twice this bloody thing has featured on Reddit and twice it has utterly depressed me. And maybe I need to add more to my disclaimer at the beginning. The problem is, the blog post then becomes something it was never intended to be i. Advice welcomed! Which is clearly not the case. Then you are far from being in the majority. In the heat of the moment mainly in one night stands , the women I have been with and the women I am friends with and have not had sex with generally do not sit down with me for five minutes and discuss it or talk about boundaries.
Maybe you make it easy for your guys. But most women do not. That is my point. Did you read the intro to this post? This was a pretty hot, kinky thing I did with a guy I know very well — as I got to know him we established boundaries and played more intensely with the things each of us liked.
In regards to your first two paragraphs — yes, I misinterpreted the intro and thus at least half of my posts are irrelevant. My apologies. As for the rest of your post. And like I said, you seem to be a lot more direct than many other women. You are a repugnant excuse for a man. Do you have any idea of how broken that thinking is? Do you know when men will stop being treated like potential rapists?
Rather than telling women how they should behave in order to avoid making a man rape them, how about you tell men not to be rapists? And for those of us into kink, very hot :. Thanks fugaduck ace name, btw. This particular blog occasionally gets picked up by those sorts of forums. Rock on, GOTN. I have never ever said that rape is not a big deal. This is not a story about rape, as I said at the beginning of the post. Thank you for playing. I cannot believe people are still stumbling over here and just not getting it.
Perhaps you could link to a kink type page that explains boundaries and communication, because it seems to be an alien concept for a lot of people. At least Anonymous has solved the problem of how to teach people about rape. Rape culture solved. I fully understand that this is not rape, but under current definitions being promoted by feminists its technically rape.
There was no enthusiastic consent, you said no, and prior consent does not mean present or future consent. Also, did you have alcohol or some other substance in your system at the time? You have the power to destroy that mans life now. What does it feel like to have the power to just have him kidnapped and imprisoned by a group of other on your whim now? More to add. Well, no. You need to see a therapist, really. Because do you know what to the reality is? However, there are a lot of women who have not given consent and have been violated anyway, and who never report it to the police.
There are kids raped by adults that never have the ability to tell someone. There are women being raped daily by boyfriends and spouses and feel that they owe it to them. There are women who go on dates, are raped and then are told when trying to report it that they were asking for it. Might there be a mad woman or two out there who gets off on the power of crying rape?
Probably, there are all kinds of people out there. Is it the norm? No fucking way.