Dude just to summarize what I think is the majority of the comments. I have a tendency to be overly sensative emotionally and the trauma of being forced to choose between someone I love and want to spend the rest of my with and Eternal Mormon Celestial Salvation caused me extensive emotional damage that I have struggled with ever since. In some cases you can just simply live together with differing religions. I don't want that to happen. No I dont think so. I maintain my own life and embrace my SO with open arms when I do see him, which comes to about once a week usually dinner after 8: I get up with him at 4 A. I tried to make the marriage work but we were at two different emotional places in our lifes. I am very understanding about it and I'm fine with retaining some independence, especially at this stage in dating. I completely agree with you. To the two wondering sistersвYou both appear to be with loving, incredibly supportive men.
I'm pointing this out because I don't know her and couldn't tell you what to expect.
We also do not allow harassment of those who post about being victims of rape, or who state that they are contemplating suicide. If you are a believer and are willing to go, then well and good.
Never seen it happen. I am not sorry I married outside the LDS faith. Is your spouse willing to give you up on Sundays, and half your weeknights. The religion rather, and more importantly, the church itself is integral to most mormons' identity. He is in a way to become a Ex mormon. On top of their day job, they also have to read volumes upon volumes of medical journals to keep up with their profession. It's been tough to always move and find a new job, friends etc I agree a support system is needed. Thanks for springing that one on me OB. I keep telling myself we just have to get through these exams, then it will be easier, but now I am beginning to realise that it will probably always be like this!. Also, I'm sorry that things didn't work out for you with that guy: I'm sure you will meet someone else that's just as wonderful but treats you better if you haven't yet.
So I understand how it's easy to believe nonsense when you're brainwashed from birth, and how it can be comforting to believe your life is somehow very important in the grand scale of the universe, and how you don't have to be afraid of death because you'll go on to a better place where you'll live happily ever after for eternity. This broke my heart. I tell her there's no pressure and we'll just see how things play out. I had a lot of things going on in my personal life as well, so maybe a relationship wouldn't have worked regardless. RUN like the wind. If kids ever came into the picture though, I wouldn't want to be isolated from them psychologically or banned from walking my daughter down the aisle someday. Sorry, your blog cannot share posts by email. They are taught to refrain from smoking, drinking, or experimenting with drugs. This is because if your relationship gets serious and you guys get married, then she may have to forgo many of the customs of her religion. He puts no effort forth toward our marriage - he has no time or energy to do so.
Pray about it and follow your heart. If you can genuinely deconvert her then cool. I'd try to see if she will leave the religion, and if not, you should break it off. I'm so happy I've found your blog. I've been dating my girl for 5 years and we have just broke up because she told me she likes someone else but she say she still loves me I have been married for 8 months, my husband is starting his training in orthopaedics Never imagined my life will be like this The 3 years we were together prior marriage when he was an intern were not like this at all I read all the comments and I can see there no much hope for things to improve Constant absences, constants arguments, I have to make myself available when he is available, I am an architect, I have a demanding job myself, but still beings doctor seems to be a lot more important than my career.