NeverMo in CA Date: NeverMo in CA Wrote: I've read many of the stories here and I know the religion is toxic. While Scientology is way worse hopefully the parallels will get her thinking. It's a heart-wrenching story. He's a big boy and can make up his own mind. But daytime game is the key. Put your best foot forward; be soft-spoken, courteous, well-mannered, chivalrous, and respectful. Please don't add to that grandious ego. Post was not sent - check your email addresses. I'd gladly give it all up to have him and feel wanted. I was just told that today when I told a friend how lonely it gets being married to a doctor and how I miss having my bestfriend around.
Things have worked out pretty well with us so far. So now, after two years, I'm finally starting to realise that just because I've met someone and we love each other dearly, it doesn't mean I get the benefits of having a co-parent around, which is something I desperately want.
Better than freezing up and avoiding them altogether.
YOUR prayers are just as efficacious as a priesthood holders are. Ragonk If you don't get it, never mind.
Just know that she has been indoctrinated to believe that she wont reach the highest level of heaven if she isn't married in a Mormon temple to another Mormon. In fact, your GF is probably one of the countless Mormon women who get married only to find out they have zero sex drive because of what they learned growing up. Marrying a non-Mormon is not something you do it is something that happens. I don't think it's going overboard, though, to state one very possible and very likely scenario, and that is that this girl may likely be completely indoctrinated and believing. This could possibly be worked out with some communication; perhaps he just hasn't given it enough thought to realize how shitty it is It's very inconsiderate of him. She is passionate about it. We talked during the break and saw each other a few times before he moved, but he finally ended things a month into the break telling me "he loves me, but is no longer in love with me" and "doesn't think he can regain the passion. Even after being in a relationship I have to take all the decision alone. If things get even more serious, try getting her to sign a pre-nup that neither she, nor her family will try to convert you. So, now I'm battling interview season with the fourth year dates and beginning of residency with the labor day date.
Because if you can't live and let live, you both need to dive deep into this stuff and figure out what you believe and want in your life. Fifty years later, not one of her 3 children, her dozen grandchildren or her numerous great grandchildren is an active member of the LDS church. She's already past her prime in the Mormon dating market. If you and she are not sealed, your children won't be sealed to either of you. My 16 year old daughter told her Bishop who made that comment, that she thought her dad was great just the way he was. He says it is harmless and is only fantasy as there is no touching involved. After 21 years and an approaching empty nest, my husband has taken a new mistress His new, or rather, "renovated" mistress is physical activity. It's simply sometimes hard to accept that while he is your number one priority, you probably never will be. I have no idea if he stayed. I got married to a Mormon woman.
Where there is temptation Hardworking or not, many of them work with beautiful women and actually do carry out affairs. That being said, no matter what the cause, I wasn't getting what I needed out of it and I had to make the decision to either keep things the status quo or move on. She started crying when I explained this to her. Eventually I hope each wards get to a point where they know that as a ward family our job is simply to make sure that each person, member or non member knows that when they enter the house of the Lord, they are loved.