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He also travels an inordinate amount. I have a tendency to be overly sensative emotionally and the trauma of being forced to choose between someone I love and want to spend the rest of my with and Eternal Mormon Celestial Salvation caused me extensive emotional damage that I have struggled with ever since. Seeing his mom, being the pillar of his family, scares me to think I will not be as strong as her, since I have always been the pampered child since young. Leave her so you can both find people that youre more suited for. None felt right, ever. Anytime he is with me and "our" son he is on call, distracted or "needs" time to watch football and golf. It's a heart-wrenching story. Hello to everyone in this thread. If you are not creative just copy love poems from famous romantics. There are billions of other girls out there who I wouldn't have issues like this with.
Find out what your partner thinks of as non-negotiable.
It hurts me the most when my kids ask me why they haven't see daddy in days. Keep the relationship casual. She got engaged 3 months later.
Just talk to her honestly, and if you have to, use the old wonder of logic.
He can relate to me and we can relate to each other which makes us strong to begin with. Even after that, the Church discourages youth from entering serious relationships before they are considering marriage. I'm not afraid of long distance, nor am I afraid of moving to follow him for med school, residency, fellowship etc. All in good time, my dear. I get to spend my life with someone who was not raised on fear and guilt and strict gender roles. For me this has been an opportunity to increase my love, tolerance, compassion and acceptance. The Mormon church is certainly a time consuming church. Your opportunities may not. Seek advice, and like the chick said, talk and talk and talk untill its all sorted out in your mind, and in his. My father told him it's never too late to leave whether we are married with kids or just engaged.
Wife finds out, affair continues, but now he is the perfect husband, and she is the perfect wife. Of course my parents love each other very much and would not choose another spouse, which is why her response caught me off guard. Mormons are also taught "Families can be together forever. I intend to spend some quality time in the temple, with my bishop, and with close family and friends as I think and pray my way through this decision, but I would also value your insights into this. With so much pervasive degeneracy in the media, Mormon parents think they are safe showing their kids Disney movies. They are exhausted, under tons of pressure, stressed, and expected to be studying hours after their long shifts. All parent-child relationships do. So any support on how to deal with ocd behavior, heavy handed opinions, would be helpful. My husband had quite a late start in his career; he will be almost 40 by the time he starts residency so I feel we are already way behind in that sense, but also he has had a very hard time getting into residency as he went to med school outside the US. What you are potentially choosing is certainly not the easiest path.
Funny thing is he told me when we met that he was ready to stop focusing so much on work and start focusing more on his life. I really like this girl but, is Mormonism so toxic that I should just sever the relationship before it gets serious. I don't mind long hour days but not having a companion during weekends. I'd suggest the essays.